Senior Mediation: Shared Decision-Making

Mediation is a structured process whereby a neutral trained professional helps people identify and discuss issues of concern and conflict.  It is usually private, informal, and confidential, even from the Court.  Senior mediation is helpful when families are grappling with issues related to an elder's financial responsibilities, capacity to make important decisions, or arrangements regarding daily living and assistance needs.   It can address any concern or conflicts that arises in the life of an older adult.    In most cases, all parties meet voluntarily together with the mediator, but at times the mediator may suggest a smaller grouping or "caucus," will be more effective.  At times a mediation is one session, sometimes many sessions. Case examples may clarify the types of issues mediated. 

Family dynamics can be complex, long-standing, and filled with emotion.  When a conflict arises, it can threaten to tear apart families emotionally and financially, even when everyone involved is well-intentioned.  Shared decision-making with a mediator can prevent that, by enabling the family to talk privately and find ways to work together, ideally so that everyone's needs are met.

The mediator helps the participants to:

1. Identify the problem

2. Look at the current and potential roadblocks

3. Brainstorm all possible solutions

4. Choose the best solution.
   
   When needed, the mediator writes up the agreement reached. Depending on the situation and whether legal issues are involved, the participants may have an attorney review the agreement, or may simply sign the agreement.  At DFMS, there is no additional charge for writing the agreement, regardless of how long it is.

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